24 Dec 2010

Merry Christmas !! :)


Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to all my dearest ones.

I hope, everyone is healthy, happy, happy and happier.

Life is short, we're getting old. :)

I give you my super best wishes to all my dearest family and friends. And those who read my blog.

May love concurs your heart warmly.


*keep in heart*. You are not alone!


I love Christmas the most, as it is the warmest festival in the freezing season. :)



ho~ho~ho~
let's party!! hahahaha~~~



22 Dec 2010

:)




當思念,已經成為了生活上的一種習慣

這種習慣,不知不覺在心裡佔據了很重要的位子

一舉一動,都離不開一個人的影子





有時候看不見
反而思念會加重
也不見得是件壞事
:)

習慣就好




習慣就好。








21 Dec 2010

Good conversation makes you grow faster!


跟爸爸聊天是件很開心的事,因為他說的話除了鼓勵還是鼓勵。我說了很多,他都說對。我知道,其實他對我期望蠻高,他希望我以後會是一個成功的人,指的不是期望我以後會很有錢,因為他說有錢人的生活也不一定快樂,背後付出很大的代價。

所以不會看不起所謂的窮人,因為每個人的生活都有自己的意義。我的生活意義,跟別人的生活意義不一定一樣。


但是不代表別人的生活沒有意義。那只是每個人的命運不同,不能怨。



爸爸就是這樣,每次聊天,都是愛的教育,我也就上了很寶貴的一堂。越來越喜歡跟長輩聊天,因為他們教我的都是生活的經驗,都是幫我在成功的路上跨了大半步的礁石。錢買不到的,這是我所謂的‘富裕’。我的富裕是我的經歷跟知識,絕對不是金錢。有錢,卻膚淺,那個叫可悲。視野放寬了,想法自然又不同了。我就是這樣,愛想很多,很愛思考,這是我的優點,也是缺點。至於甚麼是成功,每個人的定義都不同,我的定義只有自己明白。

我記得那天Daniel問我,‘What do you think the life is all about’. 我說,'be yourself, and no regrets in life'。 他說,‘what is ‘self’?some people don't even know who is ‘self’。’ 很正確的一句話,很多人都不懂‘自己’ 是誰。但是不出奇,很多時候,人都會迷失自己,包括我自己。但是每個人都懂自己是誰,要不要面對是另一个問題,“懂不懂”跟“要不要”往往都是兩回事。他也說了一句我很認同的,'Often, people do not know who are they, as they let people around to judge who they are, and therefore they dressed up, put on make up, used luxury stuffs because they care how people see them. In fact, these are all outer. Inner in one self is more important, as this is who we are '。我們都認同,內在比較重要,可悲的是,很多人都是看這別人來做人。其實內在那個,才是正正的自己。曾經有個朋友告訴我,別人的缺點不比她的缺點大,原因是因為她脾氣很差,連媽媽也無法忍受。但是那个就是她,她做自己,會想的不會怪她,因為明白的是,那個就是原來的她。做朋友的會去接受,做媽媽的會去忍受,不是因為大家很好耐性,只是我們都懂,那個是她。世界上有一種愛,叫包容,叫接受。沒有一個人是十全十美,包括李慧君。






有多少人可以做自己?
facebook只是一個掩飾真正生活的地方,
照片看起來再真,也不比自己生活真實,
快不快樂,只有自己懂。




20 Dec 2010

four more days to Christmas!



yess!! I'm so enjoying my private space at home.

I loooooooooooooooove it! travel too much makes me sick!

tired, tired and tired. nothing much!

I love being at home and sleep silently at night! Great great moment. :)

I had great talk with mummy, daddy and brother.

huuurray! I'm going home soon. *smile*

Mummy had just reminds me, I had spent 10k++ in taking planes alone.

wow! high expenses.

no choice, I miss home. :)

and daddy says, Yes! (hahahaha)

What to do? haha.. they always gave me the best.

Another good news, I'm flying off to Australia next year end.

Finally next year I got time for my 2-years postpone trip, Auntie Lourdes has been asking me this for 2 years. Gosh... finally, I got time to go liao!

haiz, why so ma huan, need visa.



lovely parents & family I have
How glad I am
很幸福了


13 Dec 2010

Monday, a war ends another war begins!


I've completed the hardest assignment in this term. 4.5k gone! my brain juice gone half. Now, doing for the second one!! and then, Holidaysssssssssssssssssss !! I can't wait.

Sweden, I'm coming!!! cold sei me!! but don't care... still going. 人生有几多個十年! :)




12 Dec 2010

Tremendous changes



Tremendous changes within a year without self-conscious.

Trace back the memory in facebook last night... status, pictures ...

I was like...... @#$#@^%& (haha)

Funny + childish act.

Eventually, soreness made me grew!

Pain makes me tough and tougher, inner & outer aspect...

一年的時間足以讓人成長,我變了!360’ 變了。

感覺到的,還會持續在變。。。。。。

“越挫越強,遇強越強”

以前選擇躲在某個世界里,現在妳選擇了去放縱自己,挑戰与面對。

也間接的證明了,自己的能力超乎自己的預料,我還可以更好!

想想,其實應該感謝那個讓我跌到最低的人。

讓我越走越遠,活得更快樂。

甚麼都不要緊,只要記得,要回家。就可以了 :)




謝謝

10 Dec 2010

not a day


I feel so fucking stress with strategic management assignment! :((((((((((

I can feel the pressure in heart!

I can feel the difficulty in breathing!

Hell week faster get off!!!! I want Holidaysssssssssssssss !!!

Arrrrrrgh........

I can DO it!!!! Go go Hui Jun!!! Jia You!!! Jia You :)





I miss someone badly. wo yao hui jia



6 Dec 2010

6 December 2010


昨晚發了個夢,夢裡有夢。印象最深的是我夢見了已故的婆婆,那個感覺還是一樣,心是抽泣的。我每次夢見她,都會被一種悲傷喚起,醒來后的感覺就是難過,感覺依然很真實。四年了,時間過得真快。奇怪的是,我老是在不同的地方夢見她,一定不是在家裡的,想必她很想知道孫女在外頭過得怎樣吧。一個親人的離去,會在某個人的內心深處留下一個隱藏的思念,即使相隔多年,心依然會隱隱作痛。還記得前天,Daniel問,what is love? 在廚房的每個人都試著跟他解釋,但是他依然無法明白甚麼是愛,他覺得Care就是Love。他Care他的家人,所以他protect他們,etc。在他的世界里,沒有‘Love’,那個是‘Care’。在場的每個人都無法完完全全的去跟他解釋甚麼是愛,其實大家都明白,愛是沒有辦法解釋的東西,它是很抽象的東西,若有若無。我們大家跟他‘吵’了好幾個鐘頭,他還是不懂甚麼是愛。但是每個人心裡都懂,他根本就知道what is love,he just tries to deny that the care is love because his community will never admit the existence of 'love' among each other. then Alan says,“i feel sorry to you,because love is amazing!”。大家都笑了,不知怎麼再跟他解釋了。Winnie says, 'oh you make 'care'(love) with your partner'. 哈哈,大家笑翻了。





* For me, love is beyond cares, love is look beyond the imperfections, but ultimately, Love is something unexplainable.





3 Dec 2010

我喜歡這天



今天一直睡一直睡,這種天氣逼得我一直睡。

不過還蠻舒服的,因為我不用為功課煩,頭腦也不會亂亂想東西。

哈哈 。。。但是功課就一拖再拖,我是懶惰蟲嗎?!

我想我應該再改變改變一下自己,讓自己更有自信。

小看自己是我一直以來的壞習慣,不過以後不會了,我會改掉。:)

我回想起來以前曾經一些人對我說過他們眼里的‘慧君’,

我覺得很好笑,不過很感謝你們那麼看好我。

人,總要信。我信我自己,我信我所愛,我信上天恩賜給我的每一樣東西。

都是對我最好的安排。

今天有跟媽咪聊天,我很開心。

晚安




2 Dec 2010

let it be.




女人的直覺很准的,准到不懂怎麼解釋。

no scientific proves, but it is so true.


30 Nov 2010

Sorry ♥




昨天做了一件很笨的事,我沒想到我那麼有勇氣按那個 ‘send’ button.

其實我有猶豫了一下下,最後還是說了

對不起啊譚先生,我錯了。。。。。。

press conference就沒有啦,不過blog conference有一個。

Sorry my love, I will never do it again.

soooooooooooooooooooorry L.G !!!




27 Nov 2010

-8'c 的星期日夜晚


有時候我在想,甚麼是對自己最好的。慢慢發覺,原來最好的,不一定是最完美的。每個人都希望得到最好的東西,其實最好的,往往就在眼前,有時自己卻看不到,總是旁觀者清。就算一個人用盡力氣去尋找那所謂最好的,到頭來會發現,可能已經錯過了。所以當你擁有的時候,就應該覺得這是最好的,那就不會錯過任何東西。知足常樂,晚安! :)





p/s: 珍惜眼前人。



26 Nov 2010

守候著你。。。。。。♥


我好像很久沒見到他了,距離上次。。。

這幾天,我終於看見他了。:)

呵呵!


傻佬在睡覺。

傻婆在旁邊靜靜守候著。。。。。。♥

有人常問我想不想他

“其實傻婆真的很想念。。。很想念你”(淚)





現在是零下一度,心卻暖暖的。


25 Nov 2010

鄭秀文,你好野!♥


就是離別過 就是懷念過 便清楚愛怎出錯 便清楚你真的愛我 但往日我很傻  就是常做錯 就是求自我 未珍惜身邊一個 在此生再不想錯過 從年月裡 能全部看清楚  由始至終 只有你一位 難以代替 愛得多仔細 靜看著對方無言語 仍然是覺安慰 明天世間 怎去作估計 和你默契 愛一生一世 是你令人生能完美 誰人及你 等於我一切

我是真的很喜歡這首歌,歌詞好到極,好聽到極。
我幾時才有時間去紅館看她的演唱會?
我等了很久啦。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
有一天,總有一天!!!總有一天!!!



22 Nov 2010

Happy :)))


Last tuesday, I was presented in the employee management unit.

Jane was satisfied with it and she says 'Well Done' to everybody.

Quite happy for it since i put my efforts in.

Today, I got back my IMC assignment!!


Unbelievable, I've got distinction for the 1st assignment!!

The most satisfied part was the literature review (I knew it from her written comment).

And then I heard Susan used 'Amazon' as the example to explain the slides for today's lecture, and I was like...... that's my case studies in my assignment and she still remember it. :)

So happy :))) though I know it is just the first one, but I will pay more efforts on the 2nd assignment.


Jia You la Lee Hui Kuan!!

*Good Day*




21 Nov 2010

發悶的一天





李慧君,你怎麼啦?





17 Nov 2010

At times, money couldn't buy you a smile in most circumstances. trust me! That's not the truest of yours :)



突然很想流浪。。。想到一個沒有人認識我的地方生活一短時間。遠離所有的通訊,切斷所有的聯絡,想放開一切去過自在的生活。走走看看大自然,夜晚看星星。住在小屋裡,養只小狗陪伴,得空散散步。哇 ~ ! 想都開心,真的很無憂無慮的生活。

我有幾個地方很想去的,其中一个就是Santorini (Greece)

然後就是Austria,這個我想去很久了

然後Holland

這些旅程應該會一一在這年完成。我開始厭倦了城市的生活,我很討厭那些現實的東西,我更討厭現實的人,來來去去還不是甚麼LV,Gucci, BMW, Rolex,Prada & etc...... These are all bullshit!! I hate people wearing mask in the real world, I hate the walking speed in the cities, I hate people's fake smile in front of me, I hate smiling at people that are fucking annoying, I hate explaining, I hate to follow the rules, I hate what I hate but I couldn't do much about that... Hence, I released here! Whenever i think of the years ahead gonna be a life time working life... I feel so frustrated because that is so meaningless. Essentially, the life process is like this - study, work, married, give birth, old, sick and die. Fact is often cruel... Reality is often ugly... so what, Gucci? so what, Porche? So what, Rolex? No matter how big is your house ...... we have to leave here somehow, eventually. Can you see any meaning behind them? Nothing! it's just a shell filled with nothing/emptiness......what is the use of qualification? to show how good i am? to show the standard of social level? haha! Just to enter an interview of a job and start all over again...from zero. Stupid aren't we? This is the reality, in fact, we're relying a paper to judge ourselves don't we? relying a dead stuff?? funny aren't we? Soon, people will know what is the meaning of life, and more and more people feel depressed on their life because they WORK for nothing, STUDY for nothing and BREATHE for nothing. I'm searching for the meaning of life...... (no worries, this is not an emotional post but just the realization from individual perception.)




*i want smtg that couldn't be bothered by money, i want the real stuff!
I don't want to be the so called 'maid of money'.
At times, money couldn't buy you a smile in most circumstances. trust me! :)

16 Nov 2010

王國与王子



添加調味料入生活裡,正是我現在想要的。

我要彩色的每一天

現在這樣很好,很滿足,很快樂。

我等待一些生活的驚喜。。。 。。。

是時候想想自己的王國,應該是怎樣的世界。



遇上了王子,睡美人公主,不可以再睡覺了。

她也應該擁有自己的一片天空


才發現公主她,醒來后真的比較快樂。

王國,王子,對她都一樣重要。


10 Nov 2010

Rainbow !!!


The beauty of nature!!!

Rainbow it is

Like the colorful ribbon hanging in the sky ... lovely!!

It has made my day... I was *smiling* whole day like a kid

holding the camera and search for the right angle to capture the great moment.

beautiful scenery!! I wish life is longer now. :)

At least within that moments, I've forgotten the worries in life...

forgotten the obligations in life...

Yet, remember to *smile* sincerely,

because of believing the existence of the beautiful part in the world.

Nevertheless, I have observed with my own eyes.

believe can comes true, this is true.









only whether you believe it or not ... ♥ I believe




4 Nov 2010

Cold day!!!



... I miss you lerr Mr Tham ...

I wish you were here right now...right now!!!

T.T








* very cold night... without you! :( *cuddling baby alone*




3 Nov 2010

女人该做一本让人忍不住读下去的书 而不是一眼看穿的花瓶




李慧君在學著忍耐淡然! 加油加油!!!

You will be free after hand in the assignment!!!!!!!!!

:))))))))

can't wait can't wait...... the arrival of heaven weeks!!




2 Nov 2010

每個人,都會煩的事情



人哦 ~ 其實很會煩。煩生活、煩錢、煩感情、煩事業、煩學業、煩家庭。。。。。。有的沒的,還是煩。生活總是離不開煩惱,想很多的人最煩,煩多餘的甚麼的。沒錢人煩,有錢人也煩。才發現,要求多,奢望多,就自然煩惱也多。現在這年紀哦,男人煩的可能是事業、金錢、女人、家庭等。。。女人煩的多是感情、事業、金錢、身材、外貌、家庭等等。。。天啊 ~ 煩得完嗎?俗語說得好,誰叫我們都是“凡人”!


有時我很可憐一些人,煩惱離不開愛情,男生女生都有。不敢說自己很會想,但愛情看透了,還不就是得學會 “拿得起,放得下”。。。今天看了《下一站,幸福》的結局,有一句話說得很對的,“兩個很喜歡對方的人,往往,都因為喜歡以外的理由而分開”。我認同,超認同。所以即使愛到很深,很痛,到了沒選擇的地步,最後還是得放手。根本不需要煩。或許只能說,大家沒緣份吧。。。


事業和金錢,都是大人會煩的東西。在我這年紀,開始慢慢懂了。這兩樣東西就是離不開壓力。話說回來,真的,如果你不活在現實當中,其實是不須要煩惱的。平平凡凡一份工,不多不少的工錢,夠生活了,餓不死,吃不飽而已。事實上,其實多數的人都活這別人眼中的自己。要做到超越人家的想像,有著讓人羨慕的奢侈生活,享受少數人擁有的東西,這不簡單啊,背後付出的東西,就說煩惱和壓力就夠了,大得喘不過氣來。。。生活要是那麼簡單,我早就變了百萬富翁了。事實都是殘酷的,或許人越大,就越殘酷,殘酷的對待自己(工作),殘酷的對待別人(競爭),世界就是這樣,因為大家都要生活。


家人,人人都懂,家家有本難唸的經。解釋不了,只是知道,我跟他,都流著一樣的血。所以即使我們沒有煩惱,我們還得扛起他們的煩惱,沒有得說甚麼公平不公平,從爸爸身上,我學到的是“親情”這兩個字。也看了世上,真的有親情,這是爸爸做的榜樣,我想信我們三個,都知道以後要怎麼互相對待。媽媽說的話我也從小聽到大,“哥哥只有一個,弟弟也只有一個,世上在也不會再有第二个他們了”。我記得的,我會永遠記著這句話。


女人啊。。。煩惱也可真多,有些女生啊,我只能說,真的很會想太多。有些很幸福,煩的就只是身材樣貌,其實她們最幸福了,至少不是煩著三餐溫飽。有些女生,明明不肥,卻一直不開心悶悶不樂,真的啦,這些女生不是真的胖,而是做了別人眼中的自己,其實自卑並不是人家看不起你,而是你看不起自己,不喜歡自己,在意別人的眼光,忘了自己也應該有的信心。不是嗎?我曾經也是這樣,所以走路有點駝背。還記得剛剛去了吧生升中學的時候,沒有朋友,整天頭低低的,不敢怎麼看人吧。。。可能也經過磨練了,漸漸變好了。。。美麗應該是發自內在的,而不是外在。或許女人,要做回真正的自己,才會散發屬於自己特殊的美。


今天也不懂為甚麼,可能也是開始慢慢被壓力和煩惱找上門了。是時候想想怎麼用大人的方式去處理和解決所謂的煩惱和壓力。說讀書沒壓力是假的,說不煩金錢也是假的,說不煩事業也是假的,但至少,有些方面真的沒給我壓力和煩惱。謝謝那些從來都不給我壓力的人,我知道我是幸福的,應該煩的就煩,不應該的,那就睡覺去吧。






* 做大人,一點都不簡單,還是小時候好。:)



30 Oct 2010

王力宏- 你不知道的事

王力宏 你不知道的事





蝴蝶擦幾次眼睛再學會飛行
夜空灑滿了星星但幾顆會落地
我飛行但你墜落之際
很靠近還聽見呼吸
對不起我卻沒捉緊你
你不知道我為什麼離開你
我堅持不能說放任你哭泣
你的淚滴像傾盆大雨
碎落滿地在心裡清晰
你不知道我為什麼狠下心
盤旋在你看不見那高空裡
多的是你不知道的事
蝴蝶擦幾次眼睛再學會飛行
夜空灑滿了星星但幾顆會落地
我飛行但你墜落之際
很靠近還聽見呼吸
對不起我卻沒捉緊你
你不知道我為什麼離開你
我堅持不能說放任你哭泣
你的淚滴像傾盆大雨
碎落滿地在心裡清晰
你不知道我為什麼狠下心
盤旋在你看不見那高空裡
多的是你不知道的事
我飛行但你墜落之際

你不知道我為什麼離開你
我堅持不能說放任你哭泣
你的淚滴像傾盆大雨
碎落滿地在心裡清晰
你不知道我為什麼狠下心
盤旋在你看不見那高空裡
多的是你不知道的事


歌詞寫得真好,今晚,我聽了近十遍。聽了又听,聽了還在听。今晚的晚餐,我只吃了兩口就放涼了。沒胃口,可能是姨媽要來探望了,來臨之即總是特別多情緒。好想念馬來西亞的食物呢。。。 媽咪說得對,多人吃,東西才好吃。一個人,食而無味。 不過不要緊,Carrie約了明晚去吃扒。。。呵呵!還有Billy可能也會一起去。然後可能去慶祝Halloween。 萬聖節快樂!!!“Happy Halloween”。




*如果我不小心發你脾氣,請記得原諒我哦。:)

28 Oct 2010

最近的自己



突然很想寫日記,心血來潮了。最近英國一直下雨,時冷時溫。我不喜歡雨天,就是不喜歡,沒特別理由。最近看了很多有意思的quote,想了想,我真的很多缺點。我不想再否認了。否認這個否認那個,就一直為自己找藉口。其實自己是錯了,應該學著面對。我嘗試改變,但還是很難改掉。其實我懂自己錯在哪裡,真的懂。就是還會再犯。最近也特別懶散,可能生活太輕鬆了反而變懶惰了。這樣不好啊君!剛弄好NI number的文件,可以再繼續找兼職了。我很希望找到份part time,支付自己的一些費用。我知道爸爸媽咪很疼我,不希望我工作,怕我顧不好學業。不過我真的很想用自己的知識,轉一些小錢。好讓自己覺得,我是有用的。今天媽咪問起了最近的他工作還好嗎?等等。。。心裡是很開心的,她是有關心女兒的身邊那位。好啦,不知不覺十二點了,是時候morning call然後睡覺去了。晚安咯。。。




A surprise that I never thought of ♥



I was really shocked & surprised by him. ♥


27-10-2010, 2pm ++
I received 2 mails


And, I found they're from my dearest hubby!!! ♥


The first mail...... :)

It's the teddy bear that we plan to buy before we were leaving apart... Now, he got me a baby that will sleep with me every night. I feel very bliss ... Thanks lou gong! ♥
And, this T&C bracelet! I don't know how to react at first. Seriously, this is a big surprise for me! I love the heart lock because there's a story behind... ♥ meaningful for me ♥


I have been wearing a blissful smile as I was so touched! Thank my lovely hubby for giving me such a memorable day ever since I came to UK within a month. This is another memorable day you've created for me after 46 days we left apart. You've been created so many memorable days with me...... I hope, future ...... will be more for us!
Thank God for letting me to meet you again after few years.




Apparently, God had given me a very good present this year.
Love you. ♥ Alex







26 Oct 2010

終於找到了







當你很努力去尋找它的時候卻怎麼找也找不到,現在不費力氣就出現了。

是有緣,還是無緣?

我信的

是你的就是你的,不是你的就不是你的。




24 Oct 2010

Birthday gift



有人問 他不在的生日,不難過嗎? 沒有禮物的生日,不難過嗎?

我腦袋是空白的 不知道怎麼回答才是最好的答案

我真的不善於說好听的話 不過自己心知道 我真的不難過





當然 說不想他陪是騙人的 當時接到他的電話 心是溫暖的 沒甚麼要求了

其實去年的生日願望實現啦 ... 我已有了最好的禮物

對我來說 這是最好的答案 也最好的禮物



生日快樂




時間過得很快 又到了二十二年的今天

回頭看看 無可否認 我的人生好像一年比一年好

“很慶幸,活了二十二年。”

才發覺自己好像一年比一年堅強 更有毅力

承認自己變了很多 一年前的自己並不是這樣的

從一個甚麼都不懂的小女孩變成現在亭亭玉立的女生 真的不簡單啊

或許這就是女人必經的過程

翻看以前的一些照片。。。好好笑!(呵呵)


Last year internship in Onefm (2008)

My 21st birthday last year (23.10.2009)

Half year ago in Liverpool 半年前

This year... with my lovely bed mate, Ah Bui. - Manchester (23.10.2010)

短短一兩年的變化可真不小

做女人的過程 真的不容易啊

希望永遠不變的 是自己臉上的那個笑容!

因為那個才是最真的自己

不期望每天都開心 至少 我還有一個微笑的理由



“Happy Birthday”



19 Oct 2010

我要變!


突然覺悟!
我知道怎麼做了,是時候改變改變。
改掉壞習慣!



16 Oct 2010

11.30pm



*今天心情沒有很好,感覺怪怪的*

星期六晚,是灰色的。









其實。我想他

有意思 :)


1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。


One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.



2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。


Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.



3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。


Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.



4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。


I love you not for who you are, but for who I am with you.



5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。


Love makes man grow up or sink down.



6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。


If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.



7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。


We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.



8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。


One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When youfinally get your own happiness, you will understand the previoussadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.



9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。


When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love.All this needs a very big mind.



10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。


When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up.And we become different.



11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。


If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.



12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。


Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.



13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。


I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.



14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。


Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.



15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。


Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.



16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。


We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.



17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。


Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.



18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。


In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness



19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。


If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.



20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是明白。


An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.



21.我知道这世上有人在等我,尽管我不知道我在等谁。但是因为这样,我每天都非常快乐。


I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this.



22.一生至少该有一次,为了某个人而忘了自己,不求有结果,不求同行,不求曾经拥有,甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里,遇到你。


In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just sk for meeting you in my most beautiful years.



23.我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖,什么都可以接受。相反,我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程,知道自己最重要的是什么,知道不重要的东西是什么。而后,做一个纯简的人。


I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's aselecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man.



24.当你的心真的在痛,眼泪快要流下来的时候,那就赶快抬头看看,这片曾经属于我们的天空;当天依旧是那么的广阔,云依旧那么的潇洒,那就不应该哭,因为我的离去,并没有带走你的世界。


When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast , clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the world that belongs to you.